The Secret to Dating
All year I’ve been all business. Love was the last thing I wanted to dive into because I associated it with complication, hurt and distraction. My last relationship ended in December and it included all of the above. Then something happened…summer. Beaches, patios and hell, let’s face it less clothes. Pheromones wafted the air and suddenly I got the dating bug. However living in a relatively conservative town like Toronto, men don’t exactly approach me. So I pulled out my dating guns and used vulnerability as my strength.
Now before you think that vulnerability means coming across like a wounded dove, think again. It takes a lot of guts to be vulnerable because we run the risk of getting hurt, rejected and so forth. When we’re vulnerable, we have inklings of fear and maybe a little self-doubt but we move forward anyway. That’s having major cajones people. Let’s face it, all of us want to find love and I’m excited because the SEXYRICH411 program with Sari Gabbay and myself dives right in to the subject. The focus is to change thought patterns so that you can produce different results, become more abundant, healthier and maybe even find love. I’ve seen way too many friends and patients who were bitter, jaded and played victim to their past that it bled into their future. Here’s where thing have to change.
So you’ve been cheated on, lied to, maybe physically abused, stood up, verbally attacked and had someone freeload off of you (welcome to the club). But you want to be loved, appreciated, kissed in the morning and have someone leave you little post-it notes saying they care (again, welcome to the club). What I’ve learned from all this is that once I changed my thought patterns, I actually enjoyed getting back out there, being vulnerable and no longer felt attached to a desired outcome. I would have faith and simply let go. With what I’ve learned from the material in SEXYRICH411 is that I’ve built myself up enough that I walk in with confidence now. I no longer try to control situations and as a result,I feel free. I’ll approach men and give them MY number. Why? Because I got nothing to lose and neither do you. Suddenly I feel lighter and I walk with more confidence. And yep, dating no longer feels like a job interview. It’s just fun.
I’m so incredibly over the moon excited because SEXYRICH411 provides the tools to arm you with vulnerability, strength and set you free from the emotional crutches that are holding you in back in all aspects of your life: financial, health and of course love. Then you’ll be ready to attract what’s rightfully yours.
Aren’t you tired otherwise?
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